Long Waits and Unseen Pain: How Two New Brunswick Women Battle Endometriosis in Silence

Long Waits and Unseen Pain: How Two New Brunswick Women Battle Endometriosis in Silence

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Jun 4 2024

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Enduring the Silent Struggle: Jessica Grant and Mackenzie Ashby’s Story

Jessica Grant, age 27, and Mackenzie Ashby, age 37, share more than just their professions as veterinary technicians in Fredericton. They are united by their debilitating battle with endometriosis, a chronic condition where tissue similar to the lining inside the uterus grows outside of it, leading to severe pain, heavy bleeding, and a myriad of other physical and emotional challenges.

Their journey with endometriosis is marked by immense suffering and the emotional turmoil of being dismissed by the medical system. Grant was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2019, while Ashby was diagnosed at the age of 24. Despite their diagnoses, both women have been placed on lengthy waitlists for excision surgery, which specialists recognize as the gold standard for treatment.

The Gold Standard: Excision Surgery and Its Availability

Excision surgery, considered essential for providing relief to endometriosis patients, is not easily accessible. For both Grant and Ashby, the wait time for surgery has been a significant obstacle. They have faced a constant battle with their symptoms while dealing with the frustration of long waitlists, often feeling their pain minimized by some healthcare professionals.

Unfortunately, stories like theirs are far too common. Many women across New Brunswick are in similar positions, grappling with severe symptoms and the emotional burden of prolonged medical delays. Grant and Ashby have been understandably disheartened by the dismissive attitudes they've encountered – often being told their pain is a normal part of menstruation or being denied options like hysterectomies.

Finding Hope in Specialized Care: Dr. Craig Morton’s Role Amid their struggles, Grant and Ashby found a beacon of hope in Dr. Craig Morton, a gynecologist and endometriosis specialist based in Saint John. Dr. Morton, who trained through a fellowship in Calgary, has brought specialized skills back to New Brunswick, providing much-needed care to patients like Grant and Ashby. However, his clinic also faces a significant backlog, with wait times extending from 12 to 24 months. Dr. Morton’s desire to offer more timely care is strong, but the reality of the healthcare system's limitations in New Brunswick constrains his efforts. Since returning from his specialized training, the demand for his expertise has surged, reflecting a critical gap in the province’s healthcare services regarding endometriosis. Living with Endometriosis: Daily Struggles and Emotional Toll

Finding Hope in Specialized Care: Dr. Craig Morton’s Role

Amid their struggles, Grant and Ashby found a beacon of hope in Dr. Craig Morton, a gynecologist and endometriosis specialist based in Saint John. Dr. Morton, who trained through a fellowship in Calgary, has brought specialized skills back to New Brunswick, providing much-needed care to patients like Grant and Ashby. However, his clinic also faces a significant backlog, with wait times extending from 12 to 24 months.

Dr. Morton’s desire to offer more timely care is strong, but the reality of the healthcare system's limitations in New Brunswick constrains his efforts. Since returning from his specialized training, the demand for his expertise has surged, reflecting a critical gap in the province’s healthcare services regarding endometriosis.

Living with Endometriosis: Daily Struggles and Emotional Toll

For Grant and Ashby, each day is a battle. Endometriosis does not just bring physical pain; it carries a heavy emotional burden. The excruciating pelvic pain is accompanied by depression, anxiety, and the constant search for relief. Their quality of life is severely impacted, affecting their personal and professional lives. The fact that relief seems so elusive only adds to their distress.

Their stories highlight a crucial issue within the medical system – the need for more swift and specialized care. They are not alone in their journey; many other women face similar challenges, feeling unseen and unheard within the healthcare framework.

A Community of Hope and Resilience

Despite the extensive wait times and the constant pain, both women remain hopeful. They dream of the day their surgeries will be performed, finally bringing the relief they have longed for so desperately. The anticipation is marred with anxiety and impatience, but they cling to the hope that their suffering will eventually lessen.

Dr. Morton’s presence in their lives signifies not just a medical benefit but a sign of compassion and understanding that they have yearned for. He stands as a crucial ally in their ongoing battle with endometriosis, a symbol of the potential improvements that specialized care can bring to this pervasive and painful condition.

The Bigger Picture: Provincial Healthcare Challenges

The Bigger Picture: Provincial Healthcare Challenges

The stories of Grant, Ashby, and countless other women underscore a broader issue within New Brunswick's healthcare system, where specialty care is often inaccessible due to long waitlists and limited resources. The current scenario does not just affect patients with endometriosis but has broader implications for those suffering from various health conditions that require timely, specialized interventions.

Healthcare administrators and policymakers need to address these gaps to ensure that patients do not have to endure prolonged suffering. The efficacy of Dr. Morton’s specialized training is evident but is also a stark reminder of the existing deficiencies within the system.

Call to Action

The experiences of Grant and Ashby should serve as a call to action for the healthcare community, highlighting the urgency for better resource allocation, updated training for healthcare professionals, and the establishment of more specialized care centers across the province. Until these systemic issues are addressed, women like Grant and Ashby will continue their fight, often in silence.

Jessica Grant and Mackenzie Ashby’s perseverance amid their painful journeys reflects not just personal strength but also a broader resilience shared by many women facing similar struggles. Their stories are a poignant reminder of the need for greater empathy and action in the healthcare system, ensuring that all patients receive the care and timely attention they desperately need.

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20 Comments
  • jen barratt

    jen barratt

    I've been through this. The pain doesn't go away just because someone says 'it's just cramps.'

    It's not just physical-it's the isolation, the guilt for missing work, the way people look at you like you're exaggerating.

    Dr. Morton is a godsend. We need more of him, not fewer.

    Why is it that the most painful conditions are the ones we're told to 'just live with'?

    June 4, 2024 AT 21:33

  • Beverley Fisher

    Beverley Fisher

    I just cried reading this. I'm in Texas and we're lucky if we get a specialist who doesn't roll their eyes. You're not alone. Sending love to you both.

    June 5, 2024 AT 23:53

  • Mark Burns

    Mark Burns

    Okay but like... why is it still 2024 and we're still fighting to get basic care for a condition that affects 1 in 10 women? I'm starting to think the medical system is just built on ignoring women's pain. Like, what's the incentive to fix it?

    June 7, 2024 AT 09:32

  • Anita Aikhionbare

    Anita Aikhionbare

    This is why I say Western medicine is broken. In Nigeria, we don't wait 2 years. We find traditional healers, herbalists, or just push until someone listens. You don't wait for permission to heal.

    June 9, 2024 AT 03:41

  • Rick Morrison

    Rick Morrison

    The systemic failure here is staggering. A specialist trained abroad returns home and immediately gets overwhelmed. That's not a shortage of doctors-it's a failure of healthcare planning. Why wasn't this anticipated? Why wasn't funding allocated before the demand exploded?

    June 10, 2024 AT 19:24

  • shivam sharma

    shivam sharma

    india has same problem but we dont whine about it. women here just take painkillers and keep working. why you guys make everything a drama? just be strong

    June 12, 2024 AT 10:53

  • Alex Braha Stoll

    Alex Braha Stoll

    I mean... I get it. But like, imagine if men had to wait two years for treatment for testicular pain. The whole system would burn down. This isn't just unfair-it's absurd.

    June 14, 2024 AT 06:46

  • Dinesh Kumar

    Dinesh Kumar

    SILENCE IS NOT STRENGTH! SUFFERING IN SILENCE IS A CRIME! ENDOMETRIOSIS ISN'T A PRIVILEGE TO BE IGNORED-IT'S A PUBLIC HEALTH EMERGENCY!! WE NEED ACTION NOW!!

    June 15, 2024 AT 00:05

  • Srujana Oruganti

    Srujana Oruganti

    I'm not convinced this is even real. I mean, how many times have you heard someone say they have 'endometriosis' and then they're fine after a few months? Probably just anxiety.

    June 15, 2024 AT 23:54

  • Evelyn Djuwidja

    Evelyn Djuwidja

    This is what happens when you let emotion override science. The medical system can't be expected to cater to every subjective complaint. If you can't function, maybe you shouldn't be working in a high-stress job.

    June 16, 2024 AT 14:30

  • Sanjay Gandhi

    Sanjay Gandhi

    in india we dont have specialist like this but we have family. we dont wait for surgery. we get home remedies, we get aunts to massage our stomach, we get chai and silence. maybe its not perfect but its real. you guys have everything and still cry. what is wrong with you?

    June 16, 2024 AT 21:07

  • fatima mohsen

    fatima mohsen

    You women are so dramatic. I had my period for 10 days last month and I still went to work. No surgery needed. Just stop being weak and stop blaming the system.

    June 17, 2024 AT 13:09

  • Pranav s

    Pranav s

    why do you think doctors dont believe you? maybe its because you go to them with 100 symptoms and no proof. just sayin

    June 17, 2024 AT 15:20

  • Ali Zeeshan Javed

    Ali Zeeshan Javed

    I'm from India and I've seen both sides. Here, we don't have specialists, but we have community. In the US, you have specialists but no time. Maybe the real problem isn't the system-it's how we've lost the human touch in care.

    June 19, 2024 AT 07:28

  • Žééshañ Khan

    Žééshañ Khan

    The assertion that excision surgery constitutes the 'gold standard' is not universally supported in peer-reviewed literature. The efficacy of conservative management protocols remains under-researched in longitudinal studies.

    June 20, 2024 AT 18:50

  • ritesh srivastav

    ritesh srivastav

    I bet if you were a man with prostate issues you'd be getting surgery next week. This is why feminism is ruining healthcare. Women are not victims. They're just loud.

    June 21, 2024 AT 10:33

  • Aditya Ingale

    Aditya Ingale

    You two are warriors. I don't know how you get up every day and still show up for animals, for your jobs, for life. That's not just courage-that's magic. Keep going. Your story is changing things.

    June 22, 2024 AT 10:04

  • Aarya Editz

    Aarya Editz

    The silence around endometriosis is a cultural symptom of a deeper illness: our collective inability to sit with discomfort. We'd rather dismiss pain than confront a system that fails women. Healing begins when we stop looking away.

    June 24, 2024 AT 00:12

  • jen barratt

    jen barratt

    I just read your comment about India. You're right-we don't have family to hold us when we're curled up crying on the bathroom floor. We have insurance forms and waitlists. Maybe the real difference isn't access to doctors... it's access to love.

    June 25, 2024 AT 11:51

  • sumit dhamija

    sumit dhamija

    The author of this post is not a medical professional. The term 'gold standard' is being misused. Excision is not universally accepted as the only viable option. Conservative treatment, hormonal therapy, and lifestyle interventions are equally valid in many cases.

    June 25, 2024 AT 23:51

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